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Article: you were a friend of his and he would tell you how unpahpy he was and that he wanted a divorce, you should never have opened up your home to him and begin a sexually relationship! A friend is there to lean on and to talk to not cause more problems in a marriage and make it easy for him to have an affair you let it go too far with him. It sounds like you are trying to make yourself believe and others believe you didn’t do anything wrong. But you did, you slept with a married man, knowing he was married there is no justification for that – happy or not happy – still married and living with his family. And it seems like all Patti ever wanted was an apology and admit you wrong instead of putting the blame on him. It was 80 – 20. With the 80% on your wrong doing if you never opened up your home and let him in I am sure you wouldn’t be having this problem. If he was coming there job hunting should have made him stay in a hotel. You describe yourself as a compassionate person, one with compassion would not have the heart to do this to another woman. Especially when they have had multiple marriages and they went thru the same hurt. Unless you have always been the aggressor in having affairs. Then that would make sense. We also know how men are where you should have been a better person and not let it go that far. If he had divorced her a different story.PattiKudas to you that you were a strong enough woman to accept his apology and continue your life with your husband. I didn’t have that strength. Lisa sounds like she is not woman enough to admit she did wrong and apologize to you!! So don’t wait for it, move on with your husband and family and be happy. Don’t let people like her pull you down to her level. God Bless you and your familyTerri

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